


Let him be interested in you and bond with you by asking questions. – We hear about John’s daughter Lauren, who provides counterintuitive advice to women: don’t ask men a lot of questions.When you’re married, it becomes okay to have sex for him if his desire is stronger, but not in the early stages. When you’re dating, don’t have sex to please a man make him earn it. – John talks about when a woman should have sex with a man.– The secret of learning how to communicate is for women to start sharing whatever they’re feeling, preferably with a man, but with a woman if you can’t find a guy to listen.Focus on creating a lack of loneliness instead of looking for a soulmate. – How can a single woman find her anchor, security, and self-love in preparation for Valentine’s Day? John’s first piece of advice is to find a boyfriend, which you can do by lowering your standards.– John explains what vasopressin is, and the function it serves in men and women respectively.– What can a woman do to connect to her feminine side?.– The real need for men is to feel successful, while for women it’s to nurture.He also talks about physical and emotional connections. – John discusses what it means for a man to be manly, or to be too far on his female side.– The most destructive thing for a man to do in relationships is to express his anger and fears, or share his vulnerability, with his partner.– We learn how being a tyrant is a sign of a man being too far onto his female side.– John talks about how a combination of independence and dependence (or interdependence) looks in practical terms.– What’s John’s definition of masculine versus feminine? In his answer, John talks about testosterone and estrogen levels in both men and women.John talks about the challenges and potential for fulfillment that come along with these changes, and mentions his new book Beyond Mars and Venus. – The social line between the sexes has blurred, but biologically and hormonally, we’re still distinct.– John clearly makes the link between nutrition and hormonal balance, and, in turn, to interpersonal and romantic relationships.– It’s good to get good nutrition, John says, and explains how this relates to romantic relationships.

In this episode we talked about polarity in relationships and what it really takes to find the love or your life, and keep him or her around. John Gray needs little introduction, as he’s the author of one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century.-according to USA Today, If you haven’t already guessed, this remarkable book is Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.
